POSITIVE PEOPLE lately.
Few of them are my touch & go colleagues.
Ignore the touch and go part, it's just something like..
i met someone who's really nice, but it's just time are limited
that i couldn't even spend more time with them.
it feels just like touch&go.
Have you think about that....
you're actually influencing your friends?
Or your're influencing by them?
A simple question that we seldom think about.
I bet that you're probably saying that
"Of course my friends are influencing me.."
For me, it's very simple.
Let me share about a few of my daily life.
When i hang out with my friends,
most of the time, I'm the one who're being told
where to go and what to have for my dinner/supper, etc.
If i wanna go for movie,
i'm always the who could not decide what movie to watch.
If we're chilling in a bar, where by there's a lot of beverage lists,
or beer to order. and.. again.. i will be the person who's struggling the most
to decide on what to drink.. If i see my friends were drinkin Stalk, i will drink
Stalk..
I am not really good in explaining how do i really felt about influences..
But i just felt that me..
i always, or easily being influenced by my friends..
It all depends on my surrounding..
With good people... I will be damn good..
With not so good people.. then i will act differently..
I should really stop this..
Instead of being influenced by others,
I should learn to influence my friends.. ya..
In a good way i mean!
Being influenced or Influencing others,
which one are you?
guyong
1 comment:
i do act differently when talking to different friends. cz the topic u talk about will be diff, the style is diff, the way they talk is diff. some ppl are more playful and sot so u can let loose ur crazy fun side and laf loud loud when u're wif them. some friends are more quiet so u tend to talk more gently to them. :P i think it's fine to be different at different times, as long as u dont go against ur principles or do sth u'll regret or pretend to be some1 u're not. :P in some way or another, i'm sure u're a good influence to ur friends even if u dun realize it. hehe.
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